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One issue with polygamy is that it has historically been deeply intertwined with forced marriages, child brides and general subjugation of women. Despite those who insist that marriage has always been defined the same way throughout history, it's not at all true. Marriage has evolved dramatically, both socially and legally, particularly in the developed world, to mitigate those aspects of the marriage institution that have been used historically to strip rights and protections away from women. Ending polygamous marriage was actually one of the earliest evolutions in that direction. Now, we socially and legally support age-of-consent laws, opposed forced marriages, have eliminated laws that make married women chattel, and have divorce laws designed to permit women to escape abusive marriages, and matrimony and child support laws to financially protect women who wish to end their marriage. (Yes, those laws can be used by men, too, but they've largely been structured in the US and elsewhere to protect the rights of women.) Plural marriage, even if you could purge the aspects of compelled marriage and underage marriage from its practice, create significant problems with respect to matters of divorce and attendant questions of property distribution, matrimony and child support. Gay marriage of two people, on the other hand, fits in just perfectly with existing laws around divorce, community property, spousal and child support, etc.
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Originally posted by Judge Jude View Post"Because marriage is about TWO people - any two people."
"Ok, but I thought it was two opposite-sex people until a minute ago, and that was narrow-minded. But limiting this to two people is NOT narrow-minded?"Originally posted by Kevin SeitzerWe pinch ran for Altuve specifically to screw over Mith's fantasy team.
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I don't think so. Current and likely future marriage law is about people. Adding anything other than people seems like much more of a stretch to me, though it at least does broach the fact that there ARE limits.Last edited by Judge Jude; 02-08-2012, 11:23 AM.finished 10th in this 37th yr in 11-team-only NL 5x5
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Originally posted by Judge Jude View PostI don't think so. Current and likely future marriage law is about people. Adding anything other than people seems like much more of a stretch to me, though it at least does broach the fact that there ARE limits.If DMT didn't exist we would have to invent it. There has to be a weirdest thing. Once we have the concept weird, there has to be a weirdest thing. And DMT is simply it.
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While I could never see it working for myself, am I the only one here that has no problem with polygamy? I wouldn't want to "share" my wife with another man, (read: Fresno Bob) nor would I want to be with a woman that didn't feel possessive enough about me to want to "share" me, but I can imagine that there are people for whom this might me a desirable situation. I also don't want to marry a man, but I can see how someone else may want to. Does it really matter all that much to whom some people want to marry?
In all fairness, many Mormon women were early leaders in the suffrage movement. Their main contention was that a normal marriage puts an unfair burden on the woman who is shackled to the home with the responsibilities of the house and children, whereas a woman in a polygamous marriage has the opportunity to improve herself through education or whatever personal hobbies she may have. They believed that a polygamous marriage allowed the woman to actually exist outside of the marriage, because there were always plenty of people around to pick up the slack when she was off doing something for herself. I'm not saying I buy this argument 100%, but there is at the very least some food for thought.
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Originally posted by eldiablo505Yeah, I don't really have a problem with polygamy among consenting adults.I always liked Alfonseca and he is twice the pitcher Hall of Famer Mordecai Brown was - cavebird 12-8-05
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I read that the Chinese ideogram for "trouble" consists of two women under one roof. Whether this is true or not I'll leave to our resident scholars in Chinese. If it's false, it's still a good story.Only the madman is absolutely sure. -Robert Anton Wilson, novelist (1932-2007)
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Originally posted by johnnya24 View PostTwo wives ... two women to nag at you ... no thanks?"You know what's wrong with America? If I lovingly tongue a woman's nipple in a movie, it gets an "NC-17" rating, if I chop it off with a machete, it's an "R". That's what's wrong with America, man...."--Dennis Hopper
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Originally posted by Fresno Bob View PostThat's always been my thought as well, ****e, if there's two, then they outnumber you, imagine those arguements! I know that if anything ever happened to my current wife, I'd never get married again.Last edited by johnnya24; 02-08-2012, 03:12 PM.
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Originally posted by Fresno Bob View PostThat's always been my thought as well, ****e, if there's two, then they outnumber you, imagine those arguements! I know that if anything ever happened to my current wife, I'd never get married again.If DMT didn't exist we would have to invent it. There has to be a weirdest thing. Once we have the concept weird, there has to be a weirdest thing. And DMT is simply it.
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