My limited take is that most people naturally are attracted to social pair bonding. Developing a deep love with your spouse or partner over years has very little to do with sex, and more about having a home in someone. You want to come home to celebrate your victories, and sob in your various lowpoints with someone who you have history with, to share the laughs, the good times, and have a life partner in the challenges. Life is a shadow of itself when you are just floating by your lonesome.
The staying faithful to each other is about not wanting to cause pain to someone who means the most to you in life, and knowing that is reciprocated. I am just a dweeb that has been faithful to his wife for 17 years, while watching the majority of our friends and relatives screw up that fragile social pair bond construct.
The staying faithful to each other is about not wanting to cause pain to someone who means the most to you in life, and knowing that is reciprocated. I am just a dweeb that has been faithful to his wife for 17 years, while watching the majority of our friends and relatives screw up that fragile social pair bond construct.
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