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    So here's a weird one ...

    In my mail today I received a letter from a bank that I haven't dealt with in years ... addressed to me & my ex-wife. We separated 11 years ago, and divorced a couple of years after that. It was a notice of an nsf cheque.

    Several years ago I discovered that she was still using our joint account. I communicated with her by email then - I threatened to close the account, but she said that she'd take care of it. Stupid me, I took her at her word & didn't follow up.

    I emailed her this evening & let her know clearly that she had to close the acct or I will on the weekend. She responds apologetically that she's going away on Thursday & won't be able to take care of this until later in the month, and asks if that's okay.

    I have a bit of a soft spot as she had cancer last year, but she's now over it. But no way ...

    crazy.
    It certainly feels that way. But I'm distrustful of that feeling and am curious about evidence.
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    Contact the bank and have your name removed immediately
    "You know what's wrong with America? If I lovingly tongue a woman's nipple in a movie, it gets an "NC-17" rating, if I chop it off with a machete, it's an "R". That's what's wrong with America, man...."--Dennis Hopper

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    • #3
      Originally posted by Fresno Bob View Post
      Contact the bank and have your name removed immediately
      Typically you'll need to go into the bank to do this, but Fres is right. Get off the account.
      Considering his only baseball post in the past year was bringing up a 3 year old thread to taunt Hornsby and he's never contributed a dime to our hatpass, perhaps?

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      • #4
        I would take this episode as a reinforcement of how much better off you are without her, frankly - and it sounds like you're a nice enough guy that a tangible example will be helpful, if necessary.
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        • #5
          slightly more complicated as the rules here are that joint accounts have to be closed, I can't simply take my name off it ... in progress ...
          It certainly feels that way. But I'm distrustful of that feeling and am curious about evidence.

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          • #6
            Originally posted by Judge Jude View Post
            I would take this episode as a reinforcement of how much better off you are without her, frankly - and it sounds like you're a nice enough guy that a tangible example will be helpful, if necessary.
            true ... I didn't need a reminder, but seriously ... who tf does that?!?!?!?
            It certainly feels that way. But I'm distrustful of that feeling and am curious about evidence.

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